Am I not good enough for you? - Part 2 -

     There's more to cover on those pesky, taboo, toys! Are you self conscious about using them? Does that guilty feeling take you over every time you think about some alone time to get that relief your yearning for and just don't want to wait until your partner is available? Do you cringe every time they go into the bedroom alone and wonder if they will find "it"?

     This is something that you really need to discuss with your partner and figure out how to get past. If they are level headed and mature and you 2 have an open line of communication, you should be able to work this out like the adults you are. The 1st thing you both need to understand is that you're human and have basic human needs. the 2nd thing, is understanding that you both are not always going to be able to get together at the same moment to satisfy those needs, nor are you both going to want to satisfy those needs at the same time. Some of us have higher sex drives then others, but the truth of the matter is that we all don't have cycles that mesh. This leads to a choice in how to handle this problem. You can chose to ignore it and just hold out until you both can get together and scrump each others brains out, (yeah, not a fan of that idea either) OR you can find another partner who's time table may be more attuned to yours, (good luck with that) have a "friend" that you can go to at a moments notice to take the edge off (not too many are for this plan) and finally, you can handle it yourself with either the bare hands you were born with, or a sexual aid. out of all these possibilities, I think most will see that Sex Toys is really the lesser of all "evils"

     Lets face it folks. I believe I read somewhere that 96% of everyone, masturbates. and the other 4% lie. Its a natural thing and you seriously need to learn to come to grips with it. (yes, intentional pun) Be happy in the fact that your partner would rather take matters into their own hands and gratify themselves then go outside the relationship and have someone else do it for them. There are Tried and true methods for doing this for both men and woman and since everyone is different, sometimes a little help is needed to truly reach that itch properly. For women, there's all sorts of vibrators and dildos. And for men, the last few years, they've been making affordable devices for us as well! some vibrate, some are just sleeves. long gone are the days of dropping a couple hundred on a full blow up doll.

     Moral to the story here folks, Sexual Aids have been around for years and masturbation has been around since we've had arms long enough to reach. . (the real reason the T-Rex was always pissed off! Think about it!) So you can either chose to feel jealous over a piece of battery operated silicone or be thankful your partner is keeping it in the home.